All Rights Reserved. I think as a parent, all you can do is say It feels so much more lovely for a child to start smoking safely with the love and guidance of their mom etc. My husband flat out didn't care if she smoked or not. Discussion by Cliff Hanger Posted 10/24/08 11:10 AM. I find myself enjoying cigarettes way more if i take a few hours in between. Same goes for our friends if you want to see the baby take a shower and come straight over no cigarettes on the way. It's easy! (Source: a former teenage smoker who started at age 15). No wonder this country is going up Sht's Creek, if a parent doesn't even try to teach their child about the dangers of smoking and drinking then how can they expected to teach them right and wrong in general. It was nothing to do with hating my mum, I had no family trauma that could have been a factor, and there was absolutely nothing going on in my life other than I had reached puberty, wanted to be more grown up, and at that age smoking is deemed "cool" (oh what fools we smokers are.. but at 11 we think we know better than our parents). I know from my own first-hand experiences, and from all of the hundreds of posts that becoming a smoker as a child is the best time of all to begin smoking.. I know smoking isn't very healthy, but at her age, I guess it isn't doing all that much harm. I'm 28 and have been smoking for a while now which has met with some considerable disapproval from my mother. Smoking just suits her, even though she is just 6 years old. My mom hates it though. August 10, 2020 | by beebej97. I think this one is fake. I know for certain my body feels so much better since I quit smoking. If this board gets too many fetish posts or too many debates that sound more like a verbal fight, I'll have to resort to making posts moderated. We love smoking too much for that. Livvy,I'm so, so so much in love with U. I mean really! My daughter smokes and I'm not happy but of course I realise that she is an adult and it's her choice. Writing, Painting, Photography, Poetry, Reading, Music, Meditation, Happiness. I know what ur thinking haha.I kinda think Leah & Olivia didn't wanna go home school, so they were like just let the cu*nt sleep haha. A good mother would not condone that kind of dangerous behaviour. Group Owners uphold the core values of the brand by reporting content that violates the community guidelines. Very cool. As with all bad habits and addictions, the daughter must choose to stop on her own. To comment on this thread you need to create a Mumsnet account. I told her today i can't keep having this conversation with her it's getting a bit much now having to explain to her that i am choosing to smoke because i am an adult and i have that choice and at this moment in my life i want to smoke. Learn more about. I guess it means I'm a lazy cu*nt haha.Awww how fu*cking cute is Libby taking what she fu*cking wants from the store. Take up a hobby and stop keeping a close eye on your neighbours. At the hospital she's still not awake. Of course it is reflective of the parenting skills of the mother. Until he picked that up, I was pretty uneducated on the huge world of ecigs. None of your business, you know nothing of the circumstances. If my 21 year old son took up smoking, I would be very very cross. I told her if she wanted anything to do with her grand daughter she'd quit. Congrats! Ask her if she actually wants to have an addiction, because that's what she's getting into. My 3yo is a boy but he loves it probably as much as your daughter or his sisters, 7 & 5. I would hate it because of the health implications not to mention the cost. Please whitelist our site to get all the best deals and offers from our partners. The girl will have to help herself. What the F***. My dad smokes with me all the time. Feedback: The posts on this board are currently unmoderated. She said she'll email you sometime today little sis. I'm pregnant and so happy and proud of myself. Follow us for the best, hand picked confessions. There are many fantastic posts by very loving mothers who have helped their children take up smoking - quite a few when they are just 3 or 4. My mom (babies grandmother) won't stop smoking. I've always had to bite my tongue about how many ear infections my dh had when he was in her care! Kids love smoking with their moms etc. We know they love your t*ts so much. Subject Author Date Msgs When I see my GD's 4 year old face as she pulls her smoke deep down into her lungs a look of utter contentment and comfort. You don't want her developing asthma or worse over this. VoyForums remains a free messageboard site for admins and members, visitors, and . But parents who make their children drug addicts and sexually exploit them are not condemned in public forums, but rather j*** off while reading. We invited her over today and we had to ask her to wash her hands bc she never does. Brett won't let momma buy anything for them and he won't take money from her. Why should it be any business to you anyway, you are not the parent here. Im going to assume since your daughter is quite pretty she takes after her Mom. Thank you!!! My dh and I knew we would get honesty from you ladies!- Rach, It's really mean but my mom had a problem with cigarettes and alcohol. We strive to provide you with a high quality community experience. My son always complained about his grandmother smoking and I was hoping that my kids would be smart enough (with all of the education on topic that is readily available these days) not to smoke. It doesn't mean i have dismissed her feelings. It is so lovely for a parent to help their little girl/boy to get established on their own brand (often menthol), be given their own ashtray to put beside their bed, and to be encouraged to smoke in the car, when they are playing in front of other adults, and in the bath. We tried to wake Isabella but she was unresponsive but breathing, I called her Grandpa but he couldn't wake her. Brett is sweet with them too, you got a good one there babes. 16 and luvin it!! In my own experience, and in all of your stories, the child loves how beautiful they feel with a smoke, and, as long as the mom gives the necessary encouragement, the little girl gets used to smoking really quickly and it is joyful for both the mom and child once the little one knows they can't stop such that an enormous bond is established and the family can smoke together all the time. He can't control the daughter's actions around the ex. If not, I suggest you just leave the girl to it, she will smoke whether her mum is there or not, nick **** and wat-not. The best thing the dad can do is not allow the daughter to smoke around him. Even if she gets caught no fu*cker is going to do anything cos shes 4, all you'd have to say omg I didn't know haha. There are many fantastic posts by very loving mothers who have helped their children take up smoking - quite a few when they are just 3 or 4. It's our go to for all the little things we come across. (Note: We are still technically a for-profit company, so your She sits there masturbating on the sofa with her 6-inch d**** smoking on a cigarette all the time. However, I do have the option of making posts moderated on here. Sometimes its easier to just accept a childs destructive behaviour - at least then you can still have a relationship and be a source of support when they decide they need it. Mommy is always proud of me when I make money from who*ring my trashy little cu*nt. Although females AND males of ALL ages can post on here, fetish posts and debates that turn into flame debates will be deleted. Want to read confessions and comments uncensored? Cos obviously other people read what we post.I did try to post on other days but this site was either down, my messages disappeared or seemed to be infected by a po^rn site.I did email Belinda but she never replied. [quote name='dizzbizz' timestamp='1309030887' post='513637'], Man I wish my parents could smoke with me rather than look at me funny ah well, at least they accept that I smoke and let me to do so in my room or on the balcony, better than most right? When she was about to leave she handed Hannah back to me and my daughter smelled like she had smoked a cigarette herself! Some people don't deserve children.. I let her smoke. My dad smoked with me once, but he only took a few puffs and was done. You got me suspended from school and now I can't see my friends at school for another 3 weeks. There's also a great website called Mister Poll with an active form called (Woman only) Did you teach your daughter to smoke (https://www.misterpoll.com/forums/71459/topics/110900/pg/1). I haven't dismissed them, i started a thread to have a discussion about them. Ugg, such a tough choice to make. My son is 18. You are using an out of date browser. saw the thread title instead. My mom is a cigarette smoker. I see a lot of success stories on here about smoking cigarettes and have a healthy happy baby, but I've been smoking the juul for about 2 years now and really just want/need to quit. My 11 year old daughter was smoking in her room when I unexpectedly walked in on her. There is a powerful feeling of love in these posts and a clear message that their little girls (& boys) are so much more happy now that they are smokers. But she's being going down a bad road for while now. Log In:: Register:: Search. She put it in Jake's pram and covered it up with his blanket and she walked straight out of the store with it. You cannot be with them 24/7 and unfortunately at 11 we make some choices that are not good for us. My daughter is 13. Tonight they want to eat Tide pods and then test out their cardboard wings as they jump off the roof. I love her too much. She lives with me and I don't let her smoke in the house, something she used to moan about but she knows I'm not going to change my mind about that. She just doesn't want you to have any health issues or, god forbid, die before she does. Your a disgrace. to get their little one smoking.Lots of warm smoke-filled blessing to you all xxxx. I'm a single mother and feel like I'm doing most things wrong and feel guilty. !Love Olivia , Thank you Livvy. If youd like to join in, please sign in or register. The dark side of smoking - register to access, it's free. Did you only want to hear the thoughts of those who took your side so you could show your Mum and tell her how she is wrong? She was having scans when I left.I just come home now with my dad to get the girls things cos they are sleeping at my parents tonight now. VoyForums (tm) is a Free Service from . I would say something for sure if they had children of their own and smoked right by them though. Look, I gotta say if your ex is buying your kid cigarettes, **** is falling apart in that house when it comes to things like boundaries and discipline. I told her she's a badass little c unt and she just giggled. It is illegal to sell tobacco to anyone under the age of 18 in England and Wales. Johnny_D, Oksana and April , April & Oksana - Two cu nts with no life, obsessin over other bi tch's - they well jel LOL, Oh come on then tell us wot u bin up to. And of course, hookah. We are a smoking family, we are a close family, and a happy one. Neither of us smoke and we do not allow people to smoke in our house. Being shown by your mom, aunty, gran etc. Dog rescue. We shud be in bed together Love you guysTegan, Tegan,I wish I had good news, but Isabella's condition is still very serious and she's still hasn't woken up.Sorry I haven't posted but I been at hospital nearly all day every day. smoking at 13. binge drinking by 14 no doubt having sex by 15 too some guy who will do a runner when he gets her pregnant. Smoking will ruin her developing lungs. My husband has requested that I post this problem on this board! Smoking shisha, cigars and working on my Supra. New Posts: No New Posts: Forum Information & Statistics. I'm sure you've got the girl's best interest at heart, but at the end of the day if shes not being beaten black and blue and then forced to smoke a pack of 20 then its nobody else is buisness. All rights reserved. please let me know. Sign up for a new account in our community. I for one love hearing this and dont see a problem. Johnny_D. 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